Tuesday, October 17, 2023

How To Be Taken Seriously and Finally Stop Feeling Like a Loser!

Ever feel like a loser? Do people struggle to take you seriously? Learn top 3 practical tips to turn your life and be the person and the leader you are meant to be. Catapult your confidence and sharpen your skills! Get in touch with speech coach George Torok: https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/contact/ #selfimprovement #confidence #communication #leadership Keywords self-improvement, personal development, overcoming challenges, leadership skills, empowerment, confidence building, life transformation, success mindset, building self-worth, goal setting, motivational tips, empowering yourself, life coaching, positive mindset, personal growth strategies, relationships, business, public speaking, posture, speech coach, how to be confident, confidence, work place, corporate, communication Transcript: Ever feel like a loser ?here are the top three reasons people don't take you seriously the second is a quick fix but the last one can turn your life around three eye contact you don't make any looking away from your subject conveys to them that you are afraid conversely a strong unwavering gaze at your audience tells them on a subconscious level that you are confident in what you are saying and that it would be in their best interest to hear it two body language ever notice what your body is doing while you are talking to someone else I bet you didn't perhaps you are fidgeting wobbling around and tensing up all of which send signals that tell the other you were scared people won't want to listen or be associated with a scared to cat I spoke with public speaking coach Natasha Bazil witch on one of my podcasts and she had this to say on the topic our body language rewires our brain and standing with two feet on the the ground with arms down so this posture is a posture that shows confidence and it's not just that we as confident people stand like this but if we stand like this we could become confident people and there's research so next time notice your body language and correct it by Standing Tall and open to not just appear but also boost your confidence one people struggle to take you seriously because you yourself don't you don't believe in what you are saying or you have no passion for your message at all I recall when Frederick Karen a renowned author and keynote speaker said something profound on this topic during one of my podcasts I've interviewed thousands of speakers and done thousands of speakers and if you ask people what is the best speech youve ever heard the common denominator is always that the speaker was authentic and you can only be authentic If the message that comes out is the intended message that that person actually wanted to communicate there is no value in an unauthentic message and what I realized is a lot of speakers did not have that connection to the topic they speak on but I believe that when you do find what I call the in your inner theme uh your message resonates so much uh so much stronger find something you truly believe in something that inspires you to wake up in the morning a message you truly believe in will radiate from you like sunlight to the Earth and resonate strongly with other believe in yourself your message and others will follow if you would like to learn more about finding your message and overcoming your fear of public speaking check out my podcast titled your intended message linked down below fabulous you have a critical presentation coming up one that can influence the direction of your career or business how can you be ready to give it your best contact me I'm George Toro the speech coach for executives together we can create and polish a superior presentation that will get you your desired results!